toward.love

Code of Conduct

This is an intimate, consent-first evening. These agreements are what make it safe to be real. By registering, you're committing to honoring everyone's boundaries here.

  1. Consent is the whole game.

    Every moment of touch is named in advance and opted into. Touch is warm, supportive, and never sexual. You can decline anything, at any time, with no explanation owed. Hands to your own heart and a small step back means "I'm complete," and we honor it instantly.

  2. You are 100% at choice, 100% of the time.

    Sit out, step away, drink water, or leave whenever you need. If you do decide to leave, please let a facilitator know first. We just want to make sure you have the support you need before you go. "No" is a full sentence.

  3. Come as who you actually are.

    Be honest about what you're looking for. Each of our nights is for a specific kind of seeker, and choosing the room that truly fits you protects the trust everyone came for.

  4. Confidentiality.

    What's shared here stays here. You may share your own experience afterward, never someone else's story.

  5. Presence over performance.

    Phones away. Arrive fed, unhurried, and substance-free (please don't come intoxicated).

  6. Respect every person and every boundary.

    No harassment, pressure, or coercion. Read the room, meet everyone with kindness, and let a "no" be a complete and graceful answer.

  7. Privacy & photos.

    We take photos and short videos during the event to support future events. To opt out, email us at hello@toward.love before the event and we won't capture you. We never share your email or answers with other guests.

  8. Safety.

    A member of our team is available all evening. If anything feels off, tell us and we'll handle it with care and discretion.

  9. We reserve the right

    to decline or remove anyone who can't hold these agreements, so the space stays safe for everyone.

Come with courage and an open heart.
We're so glad you're here.